Sunday, 14 October 2007

The High Cost Of Procrastination

It’s very difficult for me to write this, let alone post it on the Internet.

As well as my finances being a complete disaster, so is my home, it’s filthy and full of junk and rubbish. People that know me in real life would have no idea I live like that. It’s a secret shame and one that’s costing me a lot of money in multiple ways. I hide my lack of control from all but my closest friends and immediate family, and I haven’t had anyone come over since earlier this year, which is very depressing for me.

It stems from laziness, and then being overwhelmed by the size of the task ahead of me. I literally fantasise about being 'magic' so I can click my fingers like Sam on Bewitched and the place would be immaculate all the time.

Hmmm, that really does sound like my finances too (I confess I've done the same in the past regarding money as well), but then I seem to be making a good attempt at sorting that out once and for all.

It’s costing me a fortune literally as I have a rental inspection tomorrow afternoon, that I've known about for six weeks. I've procrastinated so much I now need to hire a junk removal service, plus a cleaner to get it as inspection ready as possible in a day. I estimate this will cost me up to $1000.

The smaller impacts of my living like this are things such as not using my stove or oven, so the microwave gets a workout with lots of frozen meals. Yes, they’re cheaper than takeaways (which I had been buying almost nightly before the financial shift), but still far more expensive than cooking my own food, not to mention less healthy. We won’t discuss the multitude of takeaway containers and pizza boxes that have failed to make their way out of the apartment over the last few months until today though.

I have a second bedroom full of junk/clutter, and my own bedroom is just as bad. I have already discovered multiple items of things such as scissors, cleaning products (oh the irony), hair colour, even books! I've been re-buying things I already own, simply because I can’t find them. I have too much stuff, no respect for the stuff I do have and I dare say much of it was paid for by credit cards.

Not to mention of course the emotional cost of the stress of the impending inspections, which I could have completely mitigated by chipping away at the junk over the last six weeks, or the reduced productivity at work due to lack of sleep, or the late fees from losing bills in the piles on the dining table.

I’m absolutely mortified by this situation, but have decided this is a problem I can throw money at this time, for the last time. I’m also determined to earn back as much of the cleaning and de-junking costs by selling off my unwanted books, CDs and DVDs over the next few months, or at least as much of them as I can.

I’m starting to think the universe is conspiring to give me a really big shove/wake up call at the moment, financial changes, home changes, work changes, what’s next, losing weight?

Here’s hoping I still have somewhere to live after tomorrow’s inspection.

7 comments:

  1. Good for you for posting about it. I remember when I first started sorting out my financial mess and realising that I was disorgansised and cluttered up with junk in every area of my life except at work.
    I really sympathise with on this, hope the inspection goes well, and don't beat yourself up too hard over it :)

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  2. Thanks Louise! I'm sitting here in the lounge room filling up garbage bags of rubbish at the moment to try and help the process as much as possible tomorrow.

    My big fear is not the money it will cost to fix, but the thought of getting an eviction notice after the agent sees the place tomorrow if it's not finished.

    I've got a bad headache at the moment from the stress of it all.

    Not to mention I have to take Angus to the cattery first thing tomorrow so they don't find out about him either!

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  3. It sounds like recognizing the problem is the first step to a solution. Maybe try to focus on all the money you'll save and how much better you'll feel as you make progress?

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  4. Thanks bluntmoney, and welcome!

    I guess that's all I can do now, try and fix things today, then focus on the future and ensuring I never allow myself to fall into this situation again.

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  5. how did the inspection go?

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  6. Your post made me want to come over and help :) I hope it went all ok.

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  7. Thanks louise and ugly debty, it's all worked out OK for now, but there's still a lot to get done before the 6th of November.

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